My foster brothers physically tortured and sexually abused my sister and I when I was growing up

My parents emotionally abused me

My first husband raped me repeatedly

My second husband used fear and intimidation to control me and the kids

I’m done with shitty people. I’m done with pain, physical and emotional.

I’m not a victim. I let the abuse from my husbands go on. I take responsibility for my part.

I don’t want pity.