$41,000!!!!!

You send $80 a month…if I was that neglectful I would be put in jail.  I know you read this so let me be clear, as soon as I have access to an attorney, my only goal is going to be making you pay your children the support you were court ordered to give them.  

You wonder why they don’t talk to you?  That’s why.  You’re neglectful.  When have you ever really been there for them?  When do you make an effort to talk to them?  You don’t.  They have to contact you first.