You called the beginning of our relationship flirting.  You might flirt by sexting and telling the other person that you love them, but I don’t flirt like that.  I meant it when I told you I loved you, I meant it when I said I wanted to be near you.  What I felt was real, but you were just flirting and that makes me think everything you’ve ever said to me was just a joke or flirting.  You diminished the first year to silly games when I thought you were serious.  How can I trust anything you say to me when a few months down the road you’re going to take it back by saying you were only kidding or just flirting?